Its been a long time again that i have been updating this blog..well, i have been through many things since then...Exams, outings overseas, and again a deeper understanding in psychology, counseling and love relations for life...by asking as many as i can on so many people of many ages, i realized how immature i am in handling, managing and developing a relationship...through many advices and experiences of those who have went through that path, all have this common theory which i took back...

Many use to think that Love is whoa! that feeling that makes your heart tingle when you see that person's eyes, the joy when he/she cares for you, treats you well, understands you, agrees with you and even willing to stay that extra hour to listen and comfort you...when you first hold that person's hand, an electric shock flows through veins for hours even through the night in your dreams!! i used to think and mentality...looking back after countless arguments, the meaning of love becomes questionable and you wonder again, did i love that person?Oh wait, what is love again?

Love is not a fantasy or perfection in which every need is met, but sharing a life together, striving to meet each other's needs as best we can. Forgiving our partners for the mistakes and accepting their limitations can be just as fulfilling as appreciating their many gifts and successes. just as it was difficult for her to live with a man who didn't live up to her expectations, it was challenging for Puneh to meet up with his wife's fantasy of a perfect relationship...

Just as women need to let go of expecting men to be perfect, men too need to let go of the expection that women think we are perfect...After hearing from him, i realised the years he had to take to come up with that advice...

One thing i've learnt is that True love doesen't demand Perfection but rather embraces imperfection....