She needs Him for Romantic Companionship,
She needs him to be faithful,
She needs him make the first move,
She needs him for a simple Companionship,
She doesn't want him to be elaborate and complicated,
She needs him for financial Backup,
She needs him to be around coz she wants to be safer,
She needs to have someone to share the fun times with her,
She needs him to listen, share and care about her well being,
She needs him to miss her when hes away,
She needs him when she cries,
She needs him to eventually help her raise the family if they have children,
She needs him to share the responsibilities of caring for the Nest,
She needs him to fix things when they break.

Those are what i hear from 200 respondents who told me what they need in a guy the most...I realized that women these days need men more than ever, as much as they want to be independent and controlling, they will eventually come to the fact that both will need each other!!many women need men in different ways... Men can provide any assistance that she needs in coping stress but i realized that women these days don't know how to get this support and appreciate it properly when it is available!!! Based on their need, they tend to focus on what they don't have and not appreciating what the guy is already providing...

I've learnt that its so simple...When she learns to appreciate what the man already offers, SHE holds the key to asking for more in small increments to get the supoort she needs and deserves...To me, its not all about strategies but rather this is also what Love is all about=)

A couple who have been in a marriage for 40 years once told me, after making love, he asked her what the experience was? she replied much better than the first time..Why?

Because, they have been tru 40 years of qurrelling, bad times, fun times, sad times, challenging times and all sorts...through the potrayal of flaws and incapacities, they still love each other=)

Definitely one of my Lifetime GOALS!!

THE NEW YEAR HAS COME!!!

Whow its been long since I've updated this blog...many events & occasions have happened since then and it has been straining me like Squeezing the contents out of a chicken while its still alive!!looking back, i've learnt so many things from leadership to discipleship and most importantly learning how to better communicate with God!!

Well i can dare say that through this year, He has answered a prayer that was burning in me in 2007; i hoped to see this youth ministry double its size and continue to grow in faith, true enough, He has been faithful, since ignition of about 80 youths, we have grown to about 150 in camps alone!!As of today, when i went into the chapel, i could barely find an empty seat!!I was happily standing!!!

Anyway, this year is gonna be challenging for me, its gonna be a major transition, i have to complete many of the remaining projects and finalize my thesis on psychology and love relations for Life!!....

And oh yah, Pes A!!!many have sent their condolences and best wishes...no worries, I will Survive!!time to kill some quails!!